menghakimi?

Assalamualaikum.

Satu hari tu, saya macam sembang-sembang dengan kawan-kawan saya. Gossiping of course. Cakap pasal someone yang macam dikenali ramai, macam tweetfamous, insta and etc. Sosial liddat. And then, katakanlah B, dia terkejut and sort of judge them as T E R U K. kemudian lagi sorang pulak, Z, cakap don’t judge people by the looks.

How about we look at the content shall we? Let us be in their shoes.

Z dibesarkan dalam surrounding that almost everyone sosial liddat. She knows them well. Perwatakan dorang, baik lagi in the common sense as a human being. Y pulak memang surrounding dia sekolah agama liddat. Not a very pious girl but knows the right thing to be done. (this means both sides win as they think based on their knowledge)

What I can conclude here is, people judge. Tapi seteruk mana pun judge seseorang tu, still ia adalah keburukan yang kita tunjukkan. Jadi macam perlu je nak ubah. Macam perlu je. Note to self, Jangan salahkan orang yang judge kita. Kita nak marah diorang balik, suka hatilah. Still, keburukan kita samada simpan atau ubah *sama je actually*

Yang saya tak suka pulak, bila situasi dia kena judge sebab cara dia memang teruk, dia tak ubah, and macam seolah-olah menyalahkan Allah sebab ciptakan dia begitu. Sila gali lubang tujuh kaki dan masuk and timbus balik guna tanah.

P/s: if you somehow my friend who I talked about, I'm sorry if this is disturbing.

So that’s it.

Wasalam.

Siapa tak nak?

Memang lumrah manusia nak cari the mr. or mrs. Right diorang. In fact, ada yang dah jumpa pun. Alhamdulillah. Tapi, saya bukan nak cerita pasal tu, saya nak cerita pasal cari the si dia, especially pweety people. Btw, this is not about me. Well enjoy. Sila ambil iktibar. Note to self.

There are certain persons who were born with attractive face, melt guys heart with just a smile. Masalah dia pulak, bukan takde orang nak. Terlalu ramai la pulak. Muka cantik la katakan. Semua berebut. Tapi, end up every relationship didn’t work out. There are few conclusions I’ve made. Maybe, both have the thought on just playing with each other’s heart. Tak serius la maksudnya. Mungkin jugak, si wanita mempunyai attitude yang tidak berapa digemari orang. Yelah, first kenal buta cinta, lama kenal dah lain cerita. Ye dok? Mungkin jugak si lelaki curang sebab pikir diri tu hensem sangat. Orang cantik mesti nak hensem gak en, so cam yang si hensem tu curang etc bla bla. Saya ulang ini bukan nak cerita buruk cuma nak buat jadi pengajaran. Mungkin si wanita rapat dengan lelaki even though she’s in relationship with someone (vice versa). Juga, segala kemungkinan yang mungkin berlaku.

The thing is, tak kisah la kau cantik macam mana pun, laki gila dengan kau, perempuan gila dengan kau, everyone has their own way of despair. Even Cinderella becomes a slave, before she met her prince charming. If not, it will be a whole different story of her. Jangan sedih laki or perempuan tak nak kat kita. Siapalah kita nak mengharap kat orang en. Akhirnya, kecewa tahap infiniti sorang-sorang sebab manusia have the tendency on crushing people hearts secara tak langsung #fact. Berserah. Doa. InsyaAllah. Hanya Allah yang tahu apa yang terbaik untuk kita.

p/s: kalau dah jumpa si dia, cepat-cepatlah kahwin. Biar hubungan tu diberkati selalu. Amin. Biarlah kita dan si dia vogue di mata semua in such way that Allah pleased with what we do.